That stank.

I often miss living alone.

I like feeling like I have an entire space to myself to do whatever I like at any volume.

I like putting something in a spot and it not moving unless I move it.

I like the freedom of not being accountable to housemates.

But I ALSO super love living with my partner, and my kids, and my best-ever room-mate. There are so many benefits to living together the way that we do, and they overshadow those items above.

One of the things that I adore about being in an open relationship is when Shawn has a date and I do not have plans of any kind, other than with my self. He gets to go out and socialize and romance and do whatever the heck he wants and I get to stay home and blast a play list and clean out the disgusting fridge.

Seriously. It had a SMELL.

This song came up on Songza while I was cleaning and I remembered how much I love it!

This song came up on Songza while I was cleaning and I remembered how much I love it!

And then later, when we get the chance to reconnect, I’m in a better space because I met my own needs and Shawn is in a better place because he has had some new and stimulating experiences and we get to share with each other and bring a richness to each others’ lives that we wouldn’t have had without our time apart.

I love being social, in and out of my home, but I also love my alone time. It gives me the mental space to organize my life and to re-charge so I can be an active participant in social time.

On this day:

in 2013 – about walking back into the shadows of my past, to bring out the light and heal
in 2012 –
in 2011 – I forgot that Baby Molly’s hair was so curly. I’d like to say that she’s less messy of an eater now but actually, the opposite is the truth.
in 2010 –
in 2009 –
in 2008 –
in 2007 – I’m still really into 3 of these things
in 2006 – I AM WEARING THAT SCARF RIGHT NOW! And also, that spending budget did not last long but the grocery budget really really did!

Advertisements

One Comment on “That stank.”

  1. T says:

    I love that you are creating the life you want on your own terms.


Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s