On reassurancePosted: January 16, 2008
Yesterday’s talk with Brent really helped me out. I’ve never before felt insecure about our relationship and I never needed much reassurance about things.
Now I’m fairly insecure. Rationally no, but emotionally yes. In the first few days after I found out, he was great about this. He would often say sweet reassuring things to me out of the blue and that really helped me get over ‘the hump’. I feel like I still need that though. It really helps, just to hear it when I’m not expecting it because if I don’t hear it for a while, my mind starts to wander and play tricks on me. Like the whole “He’s still secretly talking to her” kind of tricks.
I’m sure all this will fade in time.