On reassurance

Yesterday’s talk with Brent really helped me out.  I’ve never before felt insecure about our relationship and I never needed much reassurance about things.

Now I’m fairly insecure.  Rationally no, but emotionally yes.  In the first few days after I found out, he was great about this.  He would often say sweet reassuring things to me out of the blue and that really helped me get over ‘the hump’.  I feel like I still need that though. It really helps, just to hear it when I’m not expecting it because if I don’t hear it for a while, my mind starts to wander and play tricks on me.  Like the whole “He’s still secretly talking to her” kind of tricks.

I’m sure all this will fade in time.

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